Decisions

If u do something, decide 2 do something 2 do away, avoid something unwanted, then u will find soon after again the essence of what you've been trying 2 avoid.

But if u decide 2 do something from a positive minset (of gaining something), then u will have a positive outcome (then you will get it).

Love is the answer
All you need is Love
Choose Love, always

Affirmations tips

If u can't say: "I am such and such..." or something is such and such... because u don't believe it or u are having a hard time believing it.

You can say: "I am becoming (or something is) such and such...." or "I can (or something can) be such and such..." or "i could be (or something could be) such and such...".

The point being that if u can't make right now an affirmation of what u are (or what something is), u can make an affirmation of u can (or something can) potential to be.

And after having made so many affirmations of "potential", gradually u will find that this potential has become a fact and not merely a potential any more.

Love is the answer
All u need is Love
Choose Love, always

Guidance

Do not guide in the direction for some/thing/1 2 stop something or not do something, but guide in a different direction, 2 do the same thing but in a different way.

Said another way you can't help some1 by pointing at them what they did wrong. Instead u have to guide them away and in the right direction. You could start by saying:

Try to....

Another example do not guide 4 your body hair 2 stop growing but guide it 2 become thinner.

Love is the answer
All you need is Love
Choose Love, always

Harboring negative feelings against some1 ?

Beware of negative people and from having negative feeling against them because negative thoughts are contagiouse like diseases and in time u 2 will become negative, harbor negative feelings against that negative person and this will be returned against u in the form of negative events in your life.

Instead when find yourself having negative feeling against some1, declare and love yourself for being a good and kind person (thereby focusing on yhourself) 4 not having negative feeling that person.

Another way to cope is to feel pity or compassion for that negative person who clearly must be suffering, otherwise they wouldn't be so negative.

As stated in quote from Abraham, those negative people are in your life either because you have a matching behaviour with them (they are rude and u 2 are rude) or u are paying a lot of attention (and perhaps u are gettng obsessed) 2 the fact that they are rude.

BEWARE, do not think for a moment that you can resolve the problem by "escaping" from the situation, "escaping" from them for the universe will put you in a situation where u will encounter and will will have 2 face again a negative person having the same similar traits, just like the 1 u try 2 banish from your life by escaping from them.

Love is answer
All you need is love
Choose Love, always

Avoiding to become drained and getting down by negative people

It is in observing/seeing/judging negative people that you become negative yourself and that they bring you down.
You have 2 see them being positive, try 2 find a positive aspect in them

Love the answer
All you need is Love
Choose Love, always

What if your desire came true ?

You would thanks and love either the person or God who brought u what u desired.

Therefore imagine it and thanks who brought u what u desired and it will become true.

Love is the answer
All you need is Love
Choose Love, always

When you are down to nothing, God is up to something!

Love is the answer
All you need is Love
Choose Love, always

Does God deny u or has ever denied u anything?

NO, never!

THEREFORE YOU CAN HAVE whatever u desire
- Just don't question it
- Be out of your mind
- Concentrate/imagine how u would feel if your desire came true

Love is the answer
All you need is Love
Choose Love, always

BE VERY CAREFUL of what u think, ALWAYS

Because if u like it u will keep it.

BUT if u don't like it or find flaws with, u will loose it

Love is the answer

Recognize that when u've lost something/1 dear 2 u

That it will lead u 2 get something/1 even better that what u've lost.

So you tend 2 find flaws with something/1 for a while and then 2 u, then out of the blue, usually through a dramatic and sudden event, u loose what u found flaw with and wonder what happened and mourn for what you have lost, having 4gotten that u found flaws with it and were longing. 4 something better.

This gives the expression: "nothing happens by accident" a new meaning. Actually yes things may happen by accidents which have been "programmed". The accident being a mean 2 create a rapide change.

Now cry, mourn your loss and cry again 2 relieve the tension.
Your suffering will not last and wil stop

But remember:
YOU ARE NOT A VICTIM! YOU CREATED ALL! THROUGH YOUR THOUGHTS

Do realise though that you are not a victim and stop feeling like one because it is through your thoughts of longing, desire that you came 2 loose wot you lost in order 2 get something better. You were the creator (the orchestra conductor), the universe (the instrument players) being making it happen for u.

YOU'RE A CREATOR. So create anew!

In time u will realise, what u have lost, u had 2 loose it 2 make place 4 what u longed 4. Usually what you longed 4/desired will soon come into your life after your lose.

And so there will be a small period of time when u will nothing, and then u will get it's better replacement which usually occurs soon after your loss (providing that you focus on what longed 4/desired).
Now u have NO OTHER CHOICE BUT... 2 imagine and dwell on, WHAT IT WOULD FEEL LIKE, having what u longed for/desired and put all your thoughts into it.

Now that you realised that you creator of those events and you realised that it was your longing 4 something else, you may ask yourself how 2 make yourself stop 2 be out of control and bring about circuntancies and events in your life (by your longing 4 something different) which in insight you didn't want 2 occur ?

The answer is simple: appreciation, Love, appreciate what you have instead of longing 4 something else.

Love is the answer.
All you need is Love
Choose Love, always

When you have lost something dear 2 u

Try 2 rejoyce and focus on what u will get again.

For in loss there is potential of having.
For in nothing there is potential for something.

Love is the answer

When confronted with a negative situation or person

Ask yourself: are you 100% sure that what you don't like is going to remain the same 4ever?

Is it going 2 stay and be like this 4ever? ... Honestly???

NO it will most definitely not stay like this!

Because remember that nothing/noone is ever constante, nothing/noone ever remains the same, everything/everyone is/are temporary, everything/everyone changes constantly.

Therefore everything/everyone can improve...And the news is that u will stop suffering :-)

But when? when? I hear you say. How long will have I have to wait for improvement to occur ?
Anytime is the answer. It can happen tomorrow, it could be within the next hour, next minute.
The point being that improvement can occur anytime, sooner than you think :-)

Love is the answer
All you need is Love
Choose Love, always