Motivation

Let your motivation be Love.
Love for something or Love for someone.
Let yourself and your decisions be guided by Love.

And you shall have a happy outcome.


Gratitude is the attitude
Compassion and affection are the solution
Love is the answer

Life challenges, rough patches

I've come to a conclusion about this invisible hand, or karma if you will, which is sometime guiding us toward challenges, those excruciating life events which seem to happen to us.

From reviewing those moments in my own life or witnessing those difficult moments in others' people lives, I've come to a conclusion about this invisible hand which is pushing us in what may appear those rough patches. Like the wind would be pushing our boat toward a storm. A storm which we don't want to go through.

Following (after) those rough patches, which this invisible hand is pushing us toward, we get something better.
Following your loss, which may be excruciating, following this storm in which you in your boat is caught, what you will get will be even better than what you have lost.

Alternatively, what you have lost, is just an experience which will serve you for your (spiritual) growth.
This experience, this rough patch will serve you, it will be a benefit for you; later in your life.
Have faith, in the end you will overcome those rough patches, always.

This is the conclusion that I've come to, from reviewing those moments in my own life or witnessing those difficult moments in other's people lives

I've come to the conclusion that this invisible hand is pushing us toward something better, something that will serve us.

I've come to the conclusion that those rough patches I go through, I will overcome them, the storm will come to pass and I will get a positive thing out of it or something that will serve me in my life.
I have now faith that not only I will be able to cope with a rough patch but I will get something positive, something better following the storm.

I now trust what Louise Hay called "The process of life".
I now trust and love this invisible hand.
I have now faith that this invisible hand is always pushing me toward something good.
I love you God

Gratitude is the attitude
Compassion and affection are the solution
Love is the answer

Potential

Ever felt disheartened by something or someone you keep trying to do or have, but all you get are setbacks ? Ever dreaded something, someone or a situation?

Things, people, situations are forever creating, recreating themselves anew. Things always Change.
Therefore, there is a potential for things, people, situations to be different.

There is a potential for things, people, situations to improve when you try again.
Potential, potential...think about it.

Gratitude is the attitude
Compassion and affection are the solution
Love is the answer

Overcoming doubt and fear, reaching for that better feeling place when you are down

Let the thought(s) of what would bring you RELIEF * be your guide

What if ?
What if your desire became true?
How do you see yourself ?
How do you feel?
What would you say?
What would you talk about with your friends, people around you?
How would people see you?
What would they say about you?

What if...

Play this little game in you mind, letting your imagination wander...
As often as you need
Whenever you desire something
It's a nice little game...

* See Abraham-hicks's "The Astonishing Power of Emotions" book for further explanation about the importance of relief

Love is the Answer|
Choose Love😉

People in our lives

People in our lives are often the mirror of who we are. But as we are multidimensional beings with many aspects, it takes several people to return to us the image of who we are, each person returning a portion of who we are.

Food for thoughts: now if there's someone in your life that don't appreciate, re-read the above paragraph and consider that YOU have to change.

Love/kindness/affection/compassion are the answers

Love is the path
All you need is Love
Choose Love

Understanding and dealing with aggressive people

I suppose we've all been aggressive or been confronted with a person who is aggressive.

Lately going through a personal challenge, I've come to understand why someone may be or become aggressive. The reason is simple, it is because that person is suffering, be it physical, emotional or both.

This person who is aggressive is suffering and just needs (and deep down want) to be soothed.

Therefore the answer to heal suffering and to sooth that person is simple: Love.
Look at this aggressive person through eyes of compassion and affection and if possible and best of all, offer to hold and hug that person in your arms to comfort and make him/her safe.

Love/kindness/affection/compassion are the answers

Love is the path
All you need is Love
Choose Love

Feeling intimidated by someone

Last week and this weekend I've been blessed to meet Divalia. She's a world-renowned psychic healer, who following an NDE and more hardship that any human being should have to go through in their life time, is now dedicating her life to heal people. Having read her book "Divalia's Imago, Flutter to Higher Ground and Success", which I recommend you to read (and honest to God, I am not getting any commissions :-) ), I was moved, I've shed tears, I laughed and was inspired by her life’s story.

Having finished reading her 280 pages book in only 3 days (as I couldn't it put down), where she exposed her soul so much, that I felt I knew her intimately, I had a yearning to know the person even more and through "Googling" a bit, I stumbled upon her Twitter posts.

Gradually reading through all her Tweets, seeing how she's constantly flying all over the world, being part of the music scene, running healing sessions all over world, mingling with some high profile people, I started to think that she was way out of my league. I mean even Britney Spears ‏follows her on Twitter for God's sake! And so I started to feel intimated and kind of scared of meeting her again for my first "one-on-one" healing session with her.

Now let me reassure you straight away Divalia is none of that. How I can describe her? I've found her to be down to earth, approachable, confident but not arrogant, humble, SO empathic, affectionate, warm, caring and kind. Her heart is as beautiful as she's pretty in the flesh. She's such a lovely person, you'll feel blessed having met her.

But let's come back to me, starting to feel intimidated after reading her Tweets when actually there was no reason for it to be the case in the first place and answer this blog post about feeling intimidated by someone.

Deep down I became aware that feeling intimidated could lead me to being scared which in turn could lead me to be fearful which could lead me to have negative feelings toward her. Feelings which I do not want to have toward anybody, any form of life for that matter and least of all, toward someone like Divalia.

And so I remembered how I remind people around me whenever they feel a dislike for someone else, to consider that the person they dislike is a human being just like they are. The person they dislike is a human being with feelings, just like they are. A human being that can experience joy but also suffering, being hurt and who's heart can be broken too.

Now let's be clear! When I am saying that you should think about the person who you are intimated by, as a human being like you are, I am not telling you to consider that person "just as an ordinary human". I am not telling you to make that person "smaller" in your mind, seeking and making yourself to be at peace and better by feeling "bigger", more powerful, superior.

No, what I am saying is that you should look at the person who you feel intimated by, through they eyes of empathy, care, kindness, compassion, affection.

And so considering Divalia as a human being, looking at her through the eyes of empathy, care, kindness, those feelings of feeling intimated and scared were replaced by feelings of kindness, admiration, affection toward her, and peace.

Bless you Carol'Ann for giving me this experience, inspiring me to write this blog post

Love is answer
Love is the path
All you need is Love
Choose Love