Saturday, 14 April 2012

Understanding and dealing with aggressive people

I suppose we've all been aggressive or been confronted with a person who is aggressive.

Lately going through a personal challenge, I've come to understand why someone may be or become aggressive. The reason is simple, it is because that person is suffering, be it physical, emotional or both.
This person who is aggressive is suffering and just needs (and deep down want) to be soothed.

Therefore the answer to heal suffering and to sooth that person is simple: Love.
Look at this aggressive person through eyes of compassion and affection and if possible and best of all, offer to hold and hug that person in your arms to comfort and make him/her safe.

Love/kindness/affection/compassion are the answers
Love is the path
All you need is Love
Choose Love

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