Monday, 21 December 2009

Friday, 18 December 2009

I have hurt someone and I can't forgive myself

Problem:
I have hurt someone and I can't forgive myself and I feel bad about myself. I wish I've never done it and I hate the feeling that the person I hurt is resenting me and may never want to forgive me or talk to me anymore. Beside it hurts to know that I've hurt someone else, especially because I care deeply about the person that I've hurt.

Answer:
Is likely that feeling bad about yourself is going to create any positive outcome?
The answer is most certainly no, therefore feeling bad yourself and self-hatred cannot bring a positive outcome.

Equally thinking over and over that the person you've hurt is upset with you cannot bring a positive outcome either.

Said another way: what purpose is there in self-hatred and ruminating what has been done???

Nobody says that you can on to harm and hurt people without any care for those people in the world but simply having a negative feeling about a negative situation just cannot produce a positive outcome.

You have only option: Love. Love/affection is the answer
Why?  simply because they have been hurt emotionally and/or physically. As such they need someone to reach out to sooth and comfort them. Whether you can do it physically or you  can only do it in your mind/imagination does not matter.

Love and do not fear, do not have any sort of negative feelings associated with the person you've hurt because your only option, your only choice is love.

Bring yourself (probably with a big sigh) to have affection, compassion, kindness, feel love, have caring feelings, etc... for the person you have hurt.

Your only choice is to love and have affection, for the person that you have hurt and let no other thoughts in your mind.

Entertain the hope that in time hurt subsides and wears away and that given enough time and persistent love and affection felt toward that person, that person will eventually forgive you (as improvement is natural).

Love is the Answer

Monday, 14 December 2009

Searching

Have you ever thought you lost something like a watch a necklace or something that you wear for little while only to find out that you were already wearing it. If you didn't have realised/became aware that you were already  wearing what you had you had searching for, you could have gone for hours searching and going round in circles.

Searching implies/declare that you don't possess something. And so you end up manifesting it!

Therefore, know/assume/pretend that you already possess what you are searching...

Friday, 11 December 2009

Time

In order for anything to be manifested you need time.

Because if you "don't have the time" (don't give yourself the time and are impatient), then....
 
WHEN is what you desire is going to be manifested?

Love is the Answer

Doubt

The universe/God/Source faithfully reflect what you believe/assume without any judgement.

Therefore if you have any doubts, opposing thoughts to what you desire or think of any hurdles in your way, then the universe will faithfully manifest them....

Be mindful of your thoughts.

Challenges

You set/give yourself challenges for the joy of overcoming them.
However take a moment to imagine yourself succeeding before engaging yourself in a new challenge

Love is the Answer

Impatience

Impatience implies that you are focused on the absence/lack of what you desire. Therefore you end up manifesting/perpetuating the absence/lack of what you desire.

Instead think/imagine that things are happening, that the universe is busy working hard at manifesting what you desire while you "just have to wait for your desire to be delivered on a plate".

Be mindful of your thoughts

Thursday, 10 December 2009

A reason to love yourself

Most people don't like themselves and very few do but there are countless reasons for loving yourself (honest). Here's a simple way.

Have you ever walked down the street and be lucky enough to catch someone's else smile. Not necessarily someone smiling at you, but just smiling.
Isn't that smile wonderful ? Isn't that smile makes you want to smile too and makes you happy too?

Then do something simple when you walk down the street. Smile just smile and if you catch the eye of someone smile even more.
1st it will make you happy and you will know yourself as someone that brings up a smile on someone's else face (whether you catch their glance or not) and uplift them, brighten up their heart. Even it is for only 1 minute or 2 or 1 even 1 day, you will have uplifted them.

And how can you not love yourself for bringing a smile on someone's face, how can you not love yourself for uplifting someone else and make their heart soar?😉

Love is the Answer|
Choose Love😉

When you want to have a good relation with people

There's countless reasons you may want to have a good relation with people but quiet often you would desire it when you have a negative feeling about someone else which can range from:
  • I am afraid so and so or my boss will be angry with me because it did this or failed to do that or because am constantly arriving late at work.

  • This is the 1st time am about to meet this person and I a bit apprehensive yet, I want to be in good term with that person.

  • I am off to an interview and I feeling anxious about meeting the interviewer

  • You're dreading to talk to someone or crowd/audience for some reason

  • You're dreading to ask someone something because you have a feeling that they may not agree or decline your request.

  • Or you want to get out the best cooperation from someone to help you out.

  • Or probably for one of the best reason if not the best reason of all
    you want to feel LOVE and affection for someone.

Remember always that God or source or whatever you wanna call it makes you everything, which this universe that you see, what you see and don't see. I personally would say that God is that universal consciousness that permeate everything and as such makes up everything and is in anyone.

Therefore if God is anything/everything and anyone, then remember that this person/people you are thinking of are God.

Note: I you have difficulties imagining that the person is God, try to superimpose whatever you imaging God to be over the person.

God you have to know has nothing but infinite unconditional LOVE and compassion for you.

Therefore if you can bring yourself to get past the appearance of the person/people you are thinking of, and remember that they are God and and as such, has nothing but LOVE for you, you will not fail to have feelings of LOVE and/or affection for that person/people.

In turn as you can express/feel love and/or affection for that person/people they will not fail to have affection/love for you and/or display kindness toward you or cooperate with you.

Or simply said if you can express/feel love and/or affection for that person/people then you will bring out the best out of that person/people.

Love is the Answer
All you need is Love
Choose Love, always