Motivation

Let your motivation be Love.
Love for something or Love for someone.
Let yourself and your decisions be guided by Love.

And you shall have a happy outcome.


Gratitude is the attitude
Compassion and affection are the solution
Love is the answer

Life challenges, rough patches

I've come to a conclusion about this invisible hand, or karma if you will, which is sometime guiding us toward challenges, those excruciating life events which seem to happen to us.

From reviewing those moments in my own life or witnessing those difficult moments in others' people lives, I've come to a conclusion about this invisible hand which is pushing us in what may appear those rough patches. Like the wind would be pushing our boat toward a storm. A storm which we don't want to go through.

Following (after) those rough patches, which this invisible hand is pushing us toward, we get something better.
Following your loss, which may be excruciating, following this storm in which you in your boat is caught, what you will get will be even better than what you have lost.

Alternatively, what you have lost, is just an experience which will serve you for your (spiritual) growth.
This experience, this rough patch will serve you, it will be a benefit for you; later in your life.
Have faith, in the end you will overcome those rough patches, always.

This is the conclusion that I've come to, from reviewing those moments in my own life or witnessing those difficult moments in other's people lives

I've come to the conclusion that this invisible hand is pushing us toward something better, something that will serve us.

I've come to the conclusion that those rough patches I go through, I will overcome them, the storm will come to pass and I will get a positive thing out of it or something that will serve me in my life.
I have now faith that not only I will be able to cope with a rough patch but I will get something positive, something better following the storm.

I now trust what Louise Hay called "The process of life".
I now trust and love this invisible hand.
I have now faith that this invisible hand is always pushing me toward something good.
I love you God

Gratitude is the attitude
Compassion and affection are the solution
Love is the answer

Potential

Ever felt disheartened by something or someone you keep trying to do or have, but all you get are setbacks ? Ever dreaded something, someone or a situation?

Things, people, situations are forever creating, recreating themselves anew. Things always Change.
Therefore, there is a potential for things, people, situations to be different.

There is a potential for things, people, situations to improve when you try again.
Potential, potential...think about it.

Gratitude is the attitude
Compassion and affection are the solution
Love is the answer

Overcoming doubt and fear, reaching for that better feeling place when you are down

Let the thought(s) of what would bring you RELIEF * be your guide

What if ?
What if your desire became true?
How do you see yourself ?
How do you feel?
What would you say?
What would you talk about with your friends, people around you?
How would people see you?
What would they say about you?

What if...

Play this little game in you mind, letting your imagination wander...
As often as you need
Whenever you desire something
It's a nice little game...

* See Abraham-hicks's "The Astonishing Power of Emotions" book for further explanation about the importance of relief

Love is the Answer|
Choose Love😉

People in our lives

People in our lives are often the mirror of who we are. But as we are multidimensional beings with many aspects, it takes several people to return to us the image of who we are, each person returning a portion of who we are.

Food for thoughts: now if there's someone in your life that don't appreciate, re-read the above paragraph and consider that YOU have to change.

Love/kindness/affection/compassion are the answers

Love is the path
All you need is Love
Choose Love

Understanding and dealing with aggressive people

I suppose we've all been aggressive or been confronted with a person who is aggressive.

Lately going through a personal challenge, I've come to understand why someone may be or become aggressive. The reason is simple, it is because that person is suffering, be it physical, emotional or both.

This person who is aggressive is suffering and just needs (and deep down want) to be soothed.

Therefore the answer to heal suffering and to sooth that person is simple: Love.
Look at this aggressive person through eyes of compassion and affection and if possible and best of all, offer to hold and hug that person in your arms to comfort and make him/her safe.

Love/kindness/affection/compassion are the answers

Love is the path
All you need is Love
Choose Love

Feeling intimidated by someone

Last week and this weekend I've been blessed to meet Divalia. She's a world-renowned psychic healer, who following an NDE and more hardship that any human being should have to go through in their life time, is now dedicating her life to heal people. Having read her book "Divalia's Imago, Flutter to Higher Ground and Success", which I recommend you to read (and honest to God, I am not getting any commissions :-) ), I was moved, I've shed tears, I laughed and was inspired by her life’s story.

Having finished reading her 280 pages book in only 3 days (as I couldn't it put down), where she exposed her soul so much, that I felt I knew her intimately, I had a yearning to know the person even more and through "Googling" a bit, I stumbled upon her Twitter posts.

Gradually reading through all her Tweets, seeing how she's constantly flying all over the world, being part of the music scene, running healing sessions all over world, mingling with some high profile people, I started to think that she was way out of my league. I mean even Britney Spears ‏follows her on Twitter for God's sake! And so I started to feel intimated and kind of scared of meeting her again for my first "one-on-one" healing session with her.

Now let me reassure you straight away Divalia is none of that. How I can describe her? I've found her to be down to earth, approachable, confident but not arrogant, humble, SO empathic, affectionate, warm, caring and kind. Her heart is as beautiful as she's pretty in the flesh. She's such a lovely person, you'll feel blessed having met her.

But let's come back to me, starting to feel intimidated after reading her Tweets when actually there was no reason for it to be the case in the first place and answer this blog post about feeling intimidated by someone.

Deep down I became aware that feeling intimidated could lead me to being scared which in turn could lead me to be fearful which could lead me to have negative feelings toward her. Feelings which I do not want to have toward anybody, any form of life for that matter and least of all, toward someone like Divalia.

And so I remembered how I remind people around me whenever they feel a dislike for someone else, to consider that the person they dislike is a human being just like they are. The person they dislike is a human being with feelings, just like they are. A human being that can experience joy but also suffering, being hurt and who's heart can be broken too.

Now let's be clear! When I am saying that you should think about the person who you are intimated by, as a human being like you are, I am not telling you to consider that person "just as an ordinary human". I am not telling you to make that person "smaller" in your mind, seeking and making yourself to be at peace and better by feeling "bigger", more powerful, superior.

No, what I am saying is that you should look at the person who you feel intimated by, through they eyes of empathy, care, kindness, compassion, affection.

And so considering Divalia as a human being, looking at her through the eyes of empathy, care, kindness, those feelings of feeling intimated and scared were replaced by feelings of kindness, admiration, affection toward her, and peace.

Bless you Carol'Ann for giving me this experience, inspiring me to write this blog post

Love is answer
Love is the path
All you need is Love
Choose Love

Losing some 1 dear to you

I think it is all about experiencing giving and receiving Love.

When 1 experience loosing some1 dear 2 themselves it is an opportunity 2 experience suffering because 1 has 2 experience suffering in order understand it and others suffering, compassion and Love.

Following having experiencing suffering through loss, when 1 is confronted with some1 else experiencing loss, it is an opportunity 4 the person who has alreay experienced loss 2 give unconditional Love and compassion and 4 the person experiencing the loss 2 receive uncondional Love and compassion.

Incidentally birth, giving it and being born and early life are experiences about giving and receiving uncondional Love.

Life is a cycle of birth and death, opportunities 2 give and receive uncondional Love. Experiences that the soul seeks 2 experience because unless it is experienced uncondional Love is only a concept.

Love is the answer
Love is the path
All you need is Love
Choose Love

What the bleep do we know of the reality

May I invite u 2 watch this film/documentary (avec sous titre francais) which is thought challenging about the nature of reality

Love is the answer
Love is the path
All you need is Love
Choose Love

See God in everything, every1, including u

I as stated in an earlier post I believe that God is all there is.

Therefore given that God is full of compassion, full of Love and is in everything, every1, including YOU, shouldn't it make u look at everything, every1 including YOU with compassion and love ?

Why? What's the point?

Because when I walk in the street and look at every1 I cross and see, it helps me see God in them (that is because as stated in my previous post that God is in everything, every1), God, who is my very best friend and loves me to bits. In every face I see, I see my very best friend and Loves me. Nobody is a stranger anymore, nobody is threatening anymore. Every1 I see is God my very best friends who loves me AND IT MAKES FEEL ELATED.

Because when I see God in every face, it helps me expect the best out of them and brings out the very best of them.

Because when I see myself as God, it makes me reconsider how I interact with people, it makes me interact with them with Love, kindness, forgiveness, understanding, patience, respect, etc... It brings out the best of me toward them.

Because it helps me when I have to deal with that "scary looking" looking spider that came into my flat, and kindly put it in box into to give it back it's freedom and let outside.

Because it helps me to gaze at a wasps with awe and ask it kindly to quickly fly away kindly once it has taken a share of my sandwich :-)

Because when I look at my surroundings and see God in everything and every1, I see God my very best friend and it brings a smile on my face and lightens up my day :-)

Love is that Answer
Love is the path
All you need is Love
Choose Love

What is God?

Personally I believe God is a consciousness. A consciousness which is the source of everything and makes up everything, seen and unseen. The consciousness that "was" is before there "was"/is anything.

And that consciousness which permeate everything seen, unseen, is at the heart and makes up every atoms, electrons, particles, matter, anti-matter, etc... and YOU.
As such if consciousness is at the heart of everything and permeate everything, u are God in the sense that u are part of God and cannot be separate from it.

Just like God is an ocean and u are a wave of that ocean, having the same attributes and qualities. Just like an ocean, so u 2 are wet and salty, u can be cold or hot, u 2 move, come to the shore and recede, etc...

Having been made in God's image, u are a creator, u are Love, understanding, compassion, soothing, joy, etc...
Now which of the qualities of the creator will u demonstrate?

Love is the Answer
Love is the path
All you need is Love
Choose Love

Patience pays

Patience leads you to good results
Impatience leads you to bad results

Love is the answer
Love is the path
All you need is Love
Choose Love

Tips about manifestation

From Neville Goddard:
This law is of the highest importance, because it enables you to foresee the inverse transformation once the direct transformation is verified. If you knew how you would feel were you to realize your objective, then, inversely, you would know what state you could realize were you to awaken in yourself such feeling. The injunction, to pray believing that you already possess what you pray for, is based upon a knowledge of the law of inverse transformation. If your realized prayer produces in you a definite feeling or state of consciousness, then, inversely, that particular feeling or state of consciousness must produce your realized prayer. Because all transformations of force are reversible, you should always assume the feeling of your fulfilled wish. You should awaken within you the feeling that you are and have that which heretofore you desired to be and possess. This is easily done by contemplating the joy that would be yours were your objective an accomplished fact, so that you live and move and have your being in the feeling that your wish is realized.

However do not entertain doubt for even a split second but keep your mind always focused on contemplating the joy for you cannot think about 2 things at the same time

The above said I encourage you to read the following article:
Back From the Future
http://discovermagazine.com/2010/apr/01-back-from-the-future/article_view?searchterm=Tollaksen&b_start:int=0

And from Abrahams/Hicks:
Always, when you know what you don't want, that's when the rocket of desire is born of what you do want. That is the fruit of your experience. every experience you have causes you to launch rockets of desires, and Source comes in response to those rockets.

So if what you desire is already done, accomplished on a vibrational level, then...
 What is it like? What does it feel like? What do u do following that your desire has been accomplished? Who do u thanks? Who do u talk about it? What do u say? What is your mood like when talking about it following that your desired has been accomplished?....

But do remember that physical manifestation isn't instantaneous, so don't despair if u don't see a immediate results

Love is the answer
Love is the path
All you need is Love
Choose Love

Feelings and manifestations

When you feel a certain way about yourself, some1 or something else.
You end up manifesting it in the real world

Love is the answer
Love is the path
All you need is love
Choose love

Understanding depression will empower yourself

Depression is the consequence of NOT ALLOWING YOURSELF 2 have what u want because you've imagined some (incorrect) reason preventing u 2 have what u want.

And so u are fitting a battle with yourself, which is a battle u cannot win.

The only way out is 2 believe (by disregarding the incorrect reason which u believe is preventing u 2 have the essence of what u desire) that u can have the essence of what u desire.

The way out is 2 think about what would (or the essence of) give u relief  (for guidance on how see http://wisdomfromwisedom.blogspot.com/2012/01/what-u-do-not-like-will-not-remain-and.html ).

- Give up 2 the idea that you can have what you desire
- Give up fighting
- Give up and do what it takes in order for u 2 be happy
- Give up and allow yourself to have what you desire in order for you to be happy
- Ask yourself: "what if I allowed myself 2 have (or the essence of) what I desire?" - Take comfort in knowing that IT IS IMPOSSIBLE for u 2 always think about the same thing and what u do not like.


Love is answer
Love is the path
All you need is Love
Choose Love

What u do not like (cannot) will not remain and change

But while things are the process of changing, (you have to) use your imagination to imagine how u want things to be, in order for things 2 change into what u would like them to be.

As a I guideline, if u cannot imagine yourself feeling joy, try to imagine yourself feeling relief (ask yourself what would give you reiief and allow yourself to have it). Then joy may follow afterward.

And if you are having difficulties visualising the situation having improved, imagine telling to someone else or yourself what you would be saying if the situation had improved.

And if something has to happen or you have to do something for the situation to improve and at the 1st or 2nd or 3rd... Attempt to improve the situation you or /it fail(s), tell yourself that it doesn't matter because eventually after keeping trying u must but succeed. Leading you to feel with joy that before engaging yourself to improve the situation you will succeed.

Take comfort in knowing that IT IS IMPOSSIBLE for you to always think about the same thing and what u do not like.

And if you are still having difficulties, ask yourself if what you do no like will remain as it is (negative) forever. Most undoubtedly not.

Remember also that what you are manifesting "today" is the result of what u have been thinking/imagined, "the story you have been telling", "yesterday".

Therefore if today you have started thinking/imagined better circumstances, telling a better story, it is quite normal and acceptable that you may not see an improvement today. Therefore do not get upset or dishearten if improvement hasn't been manifested in the physical world. Just disregard it and give the universe time to "build" and bring about those better circumstances for you.

Love is the answer
Love is the path
All you need is Love
Choose Love

Rising from your own ashes like the phoenix

Going through a difficult period in my life at the moment, having lost something that is dear 2 me, i've asked my guide 4 help. The guidance that I received was in the image form of the phoenix, the bird that could rise from it's own ashes.

You 2 in difficult times, having lost something dear 2 you, may think of yourself as the phoenix rising from your own ashes and obtain again what was dear 2 you in some form or another.

Love is the answer
All you need is Love
Choose Love

Learn 2 be flexible with your desires

Sometimes you cannot get what u want right away and you have 2 settle 4 a compromise which can be so frustrating that you'd rather not settle and wait patiently 2 get what u wholeheartly desire.

However learn that sometimes settling for a compromise may lead u 2 down the line 2 get what u really want.

Love is answer
Love is the path
Love is all you need
Choose Love

Patience made easy by replacing it with "eagerly awaiting"

Who wants to be patient ? Who find it easy to be patient ? not many people I am sure.

Having to to be patient conjures up images of having to put up with the absence of what you desire and buy your time, of being in a frustrating state of what you desire is not here right now. Not a pleasant state of mind to be in and no wonder it is hard to be patient.

Now replace the word "patient" with the words "eagerly awaiting". What does that change about the absence of what you desire ? (almost) nothing. What you desire is still on it's way to you, not there yet.

However far more important being "eagerly awaiting" rather "patient" changes your state of mind and outlook to a more positive one and that can make a significant change on how you feel about the absence of what you desire and shortens it.

Because if we take the premise that the universe always agree with you, always brings you the essence of  what you are thinking about, always support the the thoughts and beliefs that you have. Having to be patient, feeling impatient will tend to make you focus on the ABSENCE of what you desire, therefore the universe having no other choice but bringing you more of "the absence of what you are desiring", thus perpetuating it.

Whereas "eagerly awaiting" tends to put you in a state of mind of JOY, KNOWING that what you desire is on it's way to you, making you focus on the PRESENCE of what desire rather than it's absence. thus making you more positive about that whole "waiting business", thus shorting the time before what you desire comes into your life.

Love is the answer
All you need is Love
Choose Love

Meditation made easy (using self appreciation). Honest!

I will not enumerate the countless benefits of doing meditation to the mind body and soul. From improved immune system, peace of mind, drop in cortisol level, the list goes on.

However let's be honest trying to do focus on something, a mantra (transcendental meditation) or "do a body scan" (mindfulness meditation) isn't easy especially at the beginning. The words: challenging, tedious or boring, all springs to mind.

Even if you know that it is good to do, HAVING to do meditation for 20 minutes everyday can be as exiting as iron shirts. But here is an easy way.

If we're clear that when you are doing meditation, you are actually doing something good for your body, mind and soul, you can praise yourself for doing so.

What I mean is: instead of repeating a mantra, keep FEELING satisfaction for yourself, keep FEELING good with yourself, keep LOVING yourself, keep FOCUSING on those loving feelings toward yourself WHILE doing the mediation FOR doing meditation.

Because after all when you are doing meditation, you're doing something good for yourself :-)

It's kind of... I feel love for myself  for doing meditation while doing meditation, which makes me want to carry on doing meditation because I am doing something good for myself, which makes me feel love for myself  for doing meditation while doing meditation....
Other valid feelings u may experience toward yourself could be:
- affection for yourself
- being proud of yourself
- being grateful 2 yourself
- appreciation for yourself
- Tenderness for yoursel
- Loving yourself
 and any other positive feelings you may have toward yourself all for doing meditation.
And of course while doing the doing the meditation it is perfectly to switch and go through any and as many those feeling as you see fit.

Effectively we could view this form of meditation as a feedback loop of Loving yourself for doing this form of meditation.

 I hope this "self Love" form of meditation helps you like it helps me and puts a smile on your face like it does 2 me while doing it and do tell me if it works for u .

Love is the Answer
Love is the path
All you need is Love
Compassion leads (is the path) to Love
Choose Love